A Church in Abuja Discovered That Children Were Abused By Their Fathers, Their Mothers Responses Will Shock You

A church in Abuja held a session with mothers and the topic Child Abuse.

This whole thing began in the church's children. The instructors in the children's church developed closeness, trust and bond with these children.
They noticed their mood and action at every point in time.
Some of the girls started to withdraw from their male instructors and some others displayed some very odd characters that were questionable.

These instructors took out time to find out what was exactly wrong with these children  Their finding were quiet shocking.

• All of the children affected where girls.
• They were all closer to their fathers
• 30 percent of them were scared of other men touching them.
• 60 percent started to display what was being done to them with other children.
• 70 percent were abused by their fathers.
• 30 percent were abused by a male relative who lives with them.
• None of them told their mothers about it because they were warned no to.

So the church called for a session with the mothers and told their findings. What the mothers said where quiet disturbing.

• Some say they are scared and want to save their marriage
• Some others complained about how their jobs is taking their time and they would no want to loose their jobs and loose their home.
• Some were bothered about how to approach their husband and not offend them, 

What? Offend who?

This husband, defiled his innocent child, disrespected his marriage, damned the wife and offended God.

The bottom line is that attention was not paid to their home. Money and who gets offended was more important than than what happens the the children.

One of them said, She can't quit her job because it solves a lot of problem for her and she does not want her marriage to be affect so What would she do?

This story is so true.

Mothers, what would you do if you find yourself in this mess?